The problem - What should I do to make him “love me”?
As our world globalizes the many ideas and information about relationships and love we have makes us loose track of what ‘rule’ to follow.
The young female and I struggle to find the ‘ME’, who we are? What we want? Becomes a shady vision guided by various rules of do's and don’t. In the variety of acceptable and non acceptable, I struggle to find a system an answer that fits all where ever we maybe.
As we get older the struggle still continues and the hunt to belong is stronger.
We determine who we are by what we want. We start to follow external rules of do's and don’t to get what we desire. We play the trade game.
As women we look for companionship and love, and that usually is perceived as a man. Hence, the chase begins, and from there the up and down syndrome starts.
But there is a much easier way, that applies to everything in life but this valentines we only look at it with respect to love.
In order to attract a man become what a man needs.
This means place yourself in a position of power where he will be willing to exchange anything for your love and affection. This mentality is a game changer. Lets go over how to become or get to that stage. This is not something you must do in the action sense rather its a state of being.
The theory - Generating light:
A woman should know that her own power lies within her. All that is required is for her to turn her attention, examine and observe this power within. How is this achievable? What must we do, the reality is NOTHING.
In this absence of desire for “ME TO DO” something we eliminate the ego, we submit to full acceptance by full acceptance we let life flow through us. By allowing life to flow we gain access or depth to our inner being which is inherently good.
This inherently good being becomes more evident or is revealed when the element of “I” no longer exists.
This life flow that comes after the “I” is pure, has miraculous abilities to draw to its self and attract. You might not trust this light or this pull and thats ok, but think about it for a second. The theory that the light attracts stems from this deeper understanding of the nature of the pure light.
Pure light constitutes as the name suggests pure qualities of goodness such as generosity, courage, honesty, care, fun, beauty, health and all the rest of it.. We are attracted to those qualities, we would do anything for a nice caring generous loving person.
Why its just human nature!
So how does the “I” hinder the flow of pure light. It simply filters it out. Lets use an example you get a torch and turn it on in a dark room, the room lights up, now if you put a rectangle in front of it, you divide the light. The room is no longer lit up and all you see are these different colors and think why am I not blue, or green!
Its the same with our love life, I am now red, and I need to become green or purple. We are constantly looking to get, buy, become, someone or something else...
Removing the triangle helps everyone see the pure light with no filtration, and remember ALL humans all creatures are attracted to the LIGHT.
Practically - The ON switch
If you are just to let the light flow, what are you required to do if nothing.
The power of silence.
Forty minutes of silence daily can take you to a different level beyond the “I”. Don’t fight the thoughts just simply sit.
With patience and time something beyond the mind, beyond the act of doing takes place. In this process more capacity for light flow is built, and it simply works.
Many theories can explain how it works, but our interest is to simply use this attracting light to draw in the man of our dreams.
Keep doing the practice, the more you do it the more pure light can flow. Through the pure light, your state of being elevates to those naturally good qualities that all of us are attracted to.
Happy valentines day and let me know how it goes!
By Jana Sharaf
Founder of "NOON EVE"